HELLO, I NEED A LIL ADVICE ON A MATTER AT HAND. I AM 30 YRS OLD AND I HAVE TWO TWIN DAUGHTERS AND A NEW BABY THAT IS TURNING NINE MONTHS SOON. I AM NOW AGAIN PREGNANT AND I JUST CANT DO IT AGAIN SO EARLY. I HAVE BEEN THING ABOUT TERMINATING IT IM 7 W AND 6 D. I HAVE NEVER DONE ANYTHING LIKE THAT BEFORE AND I HAVE HAD TO DO IT BY MYSELF WITH ALL MY KIDS ANDI JUST WANT MY LIFE BACK BEFORE I HAVE ANY MORE CHILDREN. HELP!!!!!!!

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Cherish - posted on 06/24/2012

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Hi,
I agree that you are the only one that can make that choice.
I would not have a abortion,you could give it up for adoption,there are many childless couples that want a infant.
You do need to get a form of birth control.

Krista - posted on 06/24/2012

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Honestly, this is a decision that only you can make. You say that you have had to do it "all by yourself" with all of your kids, so am I correct in assuming that the father of this baby is not in the picture?

Do you have anybody you can lean on for support and help? It might be worth exploring those options first before doing anything irrevocable.

The only practical advice that I CAN give is this: whether you terminate the pregnancy or continue it, you really MUST get yourself onto a reliable form of birth control as soon as you are able.

This might help, though. If I told you, "Yes, you should definitely abort," how would you feel? Would you be upset? Or would you feel a sense of relief? Sometimes we know deep down what we want to do, but only realize it once the words come from someone else.

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