Hello mommies

Chelsea - posted on 04/21/2016 ( 2 moms have responded )

6

0

2

HELLO GIRLS WELL I NEED ANSWERS TO THOSE THAT HAS BEEN THROUGH THIS TYPE OF SITUATION. I WAS YOUNG AND DUMB BUT NEVER REGRET MY SON AT ALL I WAS PREGNANT AT 16 IM 25 NOW MY SON IS 8 YRS OLD HE NEVER MET HIS FATHER BECAUSE HE SUPPOSEDLY LEFT TO MEXICO. BUT BACK IN 2008 I DID TRY FOR CHILD SUPPORT ACCORDING TO THEM THEY STOPPERD THE CASE DUE TO NOT BEING ABLE TO FIND HIM, HOW EVER I HAD WENT TO BUY SOMETHING TO EAT LONG STORY SHORT MY MOTHER HAD TOLD HIS DAD CAME TO MY HOUSE COMPLAINING ABOUT THE CHILD SUPPORT AND ASKED HE WANTED TO HIS SON AND MY MOM TOLD HIM HES RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU MY SON CRIED OF NOT KNOWING WHO HE IS? HE LEFT NEVER CAME AGAIN SO NOW IM WONDERING HOW IM I ABLE TO GET HIM ON CHILD SUPPORT? I DONT KNOW HIS SSN I KNOW THE HOME ADDRESS WHICH IS THE SAME ADDRESS HIS FIRST BABYMAMA GOT HIM ON CHILD SUPPORT, EVERY INFO I GAVE IS THE SAME ONE HIS FIRST BABYMAMA GAVE AS WELL. HOW DO I GO ABOUT THIS?

2 Comments

View replies by

Ev - posted on 04/21/2016

7,252

7

909

I agree with Michelle. You should have done something a long time ago, actually. Placing him on child support is important but also having custody/visitation set up is important as well.

Michelle - posted on 04/21/2016

3,555

8

3244

You need to get custody sorted out as well. If you don't have court orders then he could have taken your son and not returned him.
Go and see a lawyer and ask them what is needed for where you live.

PS: Please don't type in all capitals as it looks like you are shouting and comes across rude.

Join Circle of Moms

Sign up for Circle of Moms and be a part of this community! Membership is just one click away.

Join Circle of Moms