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Peter - posted on 12/01/2014 ( 4 moms have responded )

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Please i really need help because i love my kids. I found out that one out of three kids i called mine belong to someone else. Shes 7 years old now. should i let the kid go and take the two that belong to me away from her?

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Jodi - posted on 12/02/2014

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OMG, you are a total troll soliciting women. Thanks for the PM, but no thanks.

Jodi - posted on 12/01/2014

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So, for 7 years, you've believed this child is yours. you've loved her as one of your own. You've cared for her, nurtured her, love her. And now, all of a sudden, none of that matters to you....but what about what matters to her? Have you given that any thought?

I understand you may be upset and pissed off. You have every right to be. She fucking LIED to you. Yep, you have every right to feel angry. But this child is the innocent party in all of this. You need to give consideration to how this may unfold for her. Does she deserve to know the truth? Absolutely. But how that comes about will make a huge difference to how she develops and grows over the coming years and to how she handles this situation.

Does she deserve to have her entire family taken away because her mother clearly made poor choices? Should we punish the children for the sins of their parents? Think long and hard about that.

At this point, some counselling may be beneficial. You haven't mentioned if you are still with the mother or whether the relationship has ended. I'm also assuming this child is the youngest?

I can understand this is difficult, because clearly you wife/partner is a total ass, but please don't punish the child. 7 years of knowing you means something to that child. You love her. You know you do. Don't hurt her.

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Peter - posted on 12/02/2014

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Thank you Jodi, God bless you for the point you mentioned. i would like to talk more with you for advice. please i want it private between us. Have a wonderful day..

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