Hello moms, I am new to this site. I have been having a lot of issues with my 13 year old son. He is very angry, has screamed in my face, lies constantly, has recently had outbursts at school, he has trust issues with men, his real father and I have been divorced for 8 years, his father has let him down so many times, he's an alcoholic and uses drugs. I remarried almost 5 years ago to a man that has no children of his own, my husband and son have no relationship, they hate each other, my husband has mentally abused my son, and threatened to make his life a living hell, I am ready to leave my husband because of this,, he has also mentally abused me as well. My son does not trust men, because they have let him down so many times. I also have a daughter she is ten my husband likes her and favors her, I don't know what to do, I have no job, no family, they all passed away within the last three years, and I don't have many friends. I feel like I a being made to choose my son or my husband. I don't know what to do.

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Holly - posted on 11/14/2012

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get child suport from your ex, work on getting spousal support.... find a job, even if it is part time, or working at walmart, it's better than nothing...

Holly - posted on 11/14/2012

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OMG why haven't you left him?!!! if he emotionally abuses your son, LEAVE! tell your on you are sorry, hold him like a mommy should (even if he is 13) tell him you are so very sorry to put him through that. and tell him you and him will work on your relationship, do not look for another man, you need to work on you and your son, that is it!

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