Hello moms my question is not a bout my son,this is about my husband but I really need help.my husband always says he loves me but I figur out he is chatting most of the nights with other girls and I cant bear it and this behaviour broke my heart please tell me what can I do thank you so much.


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Well he needs to understand that it is hurtful for you, and so he shouldn't do it anymore. My husband found it fun to tease me, but I couldn't handle it, so he stopped. This was because my dad used to tease me mercilessly, and really laugh at my misery. It hurt me when my husband did the same thing.
You could try role reversal, and ask him how he would feel if you were doing this with other men? And, if he doesn't mind, ask him how he would feel about it if he *did* mind!

Ariana - posted on 01/05/2013




Could you and him go to couples councelling? Is he just chatting or is he going out with these women?

I'm not you and I'm not in the situation so I can't tell you whether you should leave or not, but maybe you and him should see a councellor together. They'll be able to help both of you figure out what to do and whether this relationship is salvagable. It will help you express your feelings to him about this and figure out if you can get over his betrayal or not.


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Anna - posted on 01/05/2013




Thank you Ariana for your advice
I love him and I want to save my marriage.he says this is nothing to him and it is just fun.

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