LUVNKIDS - posted on 11/22/2014 ( 14 moms have responded )
Okay im gonna make this short nd sweet because i am tired of this, everyday i stress about this and i have became a bitch. So i messed up by telling my fam about my relationship and they now dont like him or trust that he loves me.. and his fanily dont like me bc of past history and alot of drama with them, not saying it was only me but was them too... mil and sil live right next door and my mom stays 35min away... his mom and sisters secretly hate me, but they always come over while bf at work and when i try to talk to them about starting over tghey twist everything up and make it seem like im bad mouthing or doing somthing to them, they have told me they miss their bro and miss her son, the thing is they dont call him or try to spend time with him bc they feel sorry for me, but i dont want them to, idc i jist want everyone happy, so after months and months of going next door crying almost begging her to try to like me and forgive and forget i get a im not kissing yalls ass.... but she comes over and tries to talk to me and its kinda like fake or whatever and im not liking it, like she will invite me and our kids to go walk but on fb or to her other fam members shes like i asked her to go walk, kinda like she dont like me in front of them but when noones around ahe likes me then... by the way she told his whole fam about me i dont even know them but they hate me already, me and my bf are kinda like were in a relationship with jiat us we dont care what anyone else thinks, but sometines i do, she has told all his friends and people from the stores that i talk about then when i dont say anything bad about anyone to this lady all i want is for her to like me or at least leave me alone if she doesnt like me, she wont tell me she doesnt like me either.,. But we wanna get married, so im thinking about calling her over and asking her in front of her son for her blessing, i really dont care about her not blessibg but dont want to go behind her back and marry her son, weve been together for almost 8 years and been through everything and we have two beautiful boys, so should i talk to both of them, we both wanna get married but i am terrifie of terrified that his fam is gonna break us up, they have turned almost everyone in our city against us including fam memebers, and my fam memebers are hearing that ive talked bad about tem when i never even mention their name to this woman, i believe their jealous, but i believe they shoulsnt be messing with me they should just spend as much time with him as tghey want to:((( ive let this stress me out for too long, im done with this shit today. Also their nice people but not nice to me or anyone that has crossed them before.... but we do wanna get married.