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I don't know what to do my 21 year old son lives at home with me were
In the processes of moving. Everyday there's pretty much a fight between us we both are insulting towards each other. He has no job and pays for nothing. He moved i'n with me after he graduated high school i'n late 2009 his father kicked him out cause he had no job or money to pay rent. Now 21 and living with me for about a year and half the first year he was fine he helped but after i quit my Job and then quit my other one it's been nothing but constant fighting day and night. he's had a really hard
Time i'n life he has severer anxiety problems so little things like sitting a car or resteraunt can make him really freak out hes tried everything and can't really get it to go away this has been his main reason for not getting a job. it's something he's pretty much dealt with since he was kid. He rarely leaves the house and if he does it's usually a quick trip he mostly just sits at home working out watching movies or making music and writing. I just don't know what to do every day me and him are fighting he has all these anxiety problems and doesn't even have a drivers license because when he was 16 me and his father decided Not to help him get one cause his grades but even when his grades were up we never ended helping him get one cause by that time he was 18 luckily when he was 19 he got a job and got his permit on his own and a motorcycle (dads idea) but after it broke he canceled his insurance and his registration got suspended so now he's 21 year old boy with severer anxiety living at home with no car no drivers lisecne no friends no job I'm afraid we really just dropped the ball and didn't really prepare him for life he's been begging me to help him try and get a license again so he'd be able to drive to a job but I'm looking for a house right now and trying to find a job. Need advice from mothers badly.