help!

Criscantu44 - posted on 04/24/2013 ( 4 moms have responded )

3

0

0

my son father has not been in his life ever since he was about 5 years old, now that he is 13 years old, he wants to be picking up my son. we have been going to court for awhile already for the increase of the payments that he has to give me. this is the only reason why he decided to pick up my son,because of the increase. i would understand that he wants to be on his life because he wants to be their, but no its not that, he is just doing it because the tx. oag's office increased his payments. everytime that his father picks him up, i have to force my son to go with him. my son sees his father as stranger. that is not right for my son to feel like this. i am pushing my son to be something that he is not, my son is nice, yet shy person. he is an intellagent young teenager. my raising him on my own, and know that i have a fiance,that helps me a whole lot and see him as his own son, i feel and know that i have done great job. The times that my son father picked him up, i had called the police so the he can go with him. and every time that he takes him he tells my son ," if you dont want me to be with me to be picking you up anympre, just tell your mom to take me off child support".. what can i do? so desperate, please someone help

MOST HELPFUL POSTS

Dove - posted on 04/24/2013

11,895

0

1350

At 13 he should be able to be heard by the judge and say that he does not want to see his father.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 04/24/2013

21,273

9

3058

Oh...and if you marry your fiance, in many states the father can stop child support, so look into that.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 04/24/2013

21,273

9

3058

Well, your ex is an asshole. i would certainly go back to the courts but to see if you can get sole custody and tell them what is going on. If your son is a teenager, he will be able to speak on his own behalf and state that he does not want to spend time with his father.

4 Comments

View replies by

Join Circle of Moms

Sign up for Circle of Moms and be a part of this community! Membership is just one click away.

Join Circle of Moms