Suzanne - posted on 11/28/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )
How to start and put this in short form. My daughter turning 17 says I don't listen to her. Asks me my option but doesn't believe my response. Says she wished she I never had me. Calls me a bitch all the time cause sometimes I say no. She Keeps telling me I need a mom who cares. I tell her I do and still calls me a liar. I but her smokes every 3 days cause it will make things worse if I don't ppl say stop but they don't live in my place I rent a condo and she will scream punch holes break things it's just easier to give. I can't be thrown out so I do it to keep the peace and buy her other little things and she can't even through the garbage I mean she will but it's when she wants. She has no respect for me at night time when she playing around laughing loud keeping me up all night and then fights me in the morning to go to school. She tells me she hopes karma will get me. She will be nothing like me when she has kids she will be the best mother. Well I hope so but right now she's not working not dedicated to school and she's turning 17. I'm going threw early stages of treatment for cervical cancer. She knows this and I'm stress about it but don't show it and she can see at times when I'm not feeling well and she can still tell and tell me I'm pathetic sometimes I cry and she says stop making this about you. It's not all about you. I feel like I can't wait till she's 18 she just gives such a negotiable feel in the house. I love her to bits but she's hitting the heart all the time and it's hard to stay in control when you want to bit her face back. She doesn't like me I no this and it's possible ppl say no she loves you blah blah but if they would see. She's only happy when she gets what she wants and that's when it's not earned just given. Going back to the arguing yes I do argue but I try so hard not to and 97 % of the time I don't but I can stay mad and quite for a while and she still doesn't get why I'm mad. So she thinks I'm always mad at her well really i am cause she says the most hurtful words ever and it kiss me. Sorry for ranting but am I crazy ?