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Sara - posted on 02/18/2014 ( 4 moms have responded )

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My husband and I got into an argumentover his family. always wanting money and his mom guilting him into offering. he told me that his family comes first and that I come last. that I will never be better than that. we have been together for 6 years and married for one year. we have worked it out. but I cannot get over that statement. what to do

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Sara - posted on 02/18/2014

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How do i bring up this conversation again, after fighting for one week and he still did not get it. I don't know what to say other than what I have already said to him. during that conversation trying to reason with him so that he can see my side and let him know how I feel he said it again..so tell me what to do how to approach this.?

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 02/18/2014

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So, you'd rather sit there, and let it fester? Not a good idea...

Sara - posted on 02/18/2014

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Thanks Shawnn, that will not happen. I feel his comment about me not being his family has put us back in our relationship. I cannot talk to him about it. it hurts like hell

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 02/18/2014

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In that case, you and he need to address this betwixt the two of you. If he feels that you will never be first, and you feel that is not ok, it's going to cause stress between you, and most likely lead to divorce.

I still think that he needs to get his mother a financial counselor...

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