Help.. :,(

Kimberly De Leon - posted on 01/12/2015 ( 2 moms have responded )

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Why is it that my hubby says he doesn't want to be NOTHING like his dad to OUR SON but it's EASIER for him to walk away then try to communicate & try to figure out what's wrong & fix it? I'm so hurt & crying, pls help

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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 01/12/2015

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was his dad abusive, with little patience? If so, and he's saying he doesn't want to be 'like him', and walking away from a situation before he gets 'like him', then you need to be supportive.

If he would be receptive to counseling, I'd suggest that.

My husband was severely physically and sexually abused. Because of this, he had PTSD type symptoms when the kids were little and screaming. Knowing this, we always had backup if I had to leave. Someone would go over to hang out with him, and the kids. He NEVER had a problem, as a matter of fact, within the first 6 months was right in there being an awesome daddy.

Find out why he doesn't want to be like his dad. Help him with that. You can do this! ;-) Just so you know...my kids are 21 and 17, hubby and I are still married, and he's the best darned dad ever!

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Kimberly De Leon - posted on 01/13/2015

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His dad was part time. He would take him around other women that weren't his mom

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