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Tori - posted on 03/25/2015 ( 4 moms have responded )

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I am currently 17 and pregnant and my step dad is kind of shunning me because of my pregnancy but my mom and I are still pretty close. Is it wrong to not want my step dad involved with my child when it's born and still have my mom involved?

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[momoftwo] - posted on 03/25/2015

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I do agree, and honestly if he's going to be that way towards you and doesn't even want to try I bet that won't stop your mom from being in both yours and your babies life. :)

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~♥Little Miss - posted on 03/26/2015

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Well, he is his own person and will be who he wants to and act how he wants to. No one can dictate his feelings or behaviors. The best thing is to ignore it, and continue to build your relationship with your mother.

Tori - posted on 03/25/2015

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Mine and his relationship was terrible to begin with. we would always argue and ever since this pregnancy he ignores I exist. I feel lost. I don't think it's right for him to be there after my baby is born because he shouldn't only be there during the good times he should be there during both good and bad. He is my mom's husband and he should accept what has happened.

[momoftwo] - posted on 03/25/2015

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No I think that is a normal feeling especially if you feel "shunned" by him. Is he only shunning you because of pregnancy? Maybe he would warm up to you again after you have the baby.

Good luck! I was 16 just turning 17 when I had my first she will be 7 this month :)
You'll love being a mom, it's super rewarding!

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