Laura - posted on 01/07/2016 ( 7 moms have responded )
I have just become a mother to my beautiful baby boy. I've had a rough couple of months as I found out I was pregnant very late on. My mother was supposed to be at the birth and unfortunately the midwives sent her home as they said I defiantly wouldn't have the baby that night and 15 minutes later my baby arrived. Then when the oedeatrition came round we were told my son has talapies and are currently under going treatment for this. As yet I have not told his dad as I can't bear the thought of rejection I know deep down the right thing to do is to tell him but I'm just not in the right frame of made for rejection it was only a one night stand and I know nothing will ever happen between us but I would love for him to out my son to bed. I'm also petrified of him taking him from me. I'm scared that if he wants him over night I know legally I have no right to not allow this but he has his own routine with me and I'm scared they won't look after him right. On the other hand I don't want me son to hate me when he grows up?! Is there any other parents out there in this position?!