Help, am i pregnant AGAIN???

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I have a 4week and 4day old. I was bleeding on and off heavy and light since than. A little over a week ago I had left side pain all day (that I now think was ovulation pain i have had before). The other day I had a white thing in the toilet with blood in it that looked like the stuff I had with my first three babies when I was in first trimester that the doctors thought might have been from the cyst you get when you are pregnant. I have never had this postpartum before though. The bleeding has pretty much stopped and just a little mucus that you get postpartum. I only breast fed her for two days and stopped completely. I have had sex atleast twuce a day since two days after having her and unprotected also. My boobs stopped hurting about two weeks ago and today they are burning. Sex hasnt hurt since about a couple days after having her but last night sex hurt and does when I am pregnant. I bleed with ALL of my pregnancies most of the first trimester. My teeth hurt when I am pregnant but they havent stopped since having her, two have nerves exposed really badly so cant go on that. What do yall think??? I usually dont get pregnant till about 3months post partum but usually have my first period way before than and havent yet as far as I know. But they said you usually ovulate before your first pp period also. I usually find out I am pregnant a week after ovulation lol. She was my 16th pregnancy and my 7th vaginal delivery. The rest were early miscarriages. Thank you, have a good day yall

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Jodi - posted on 05/04/2015

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Yeah, ok, lol. Honey, you have never even had a baby. No way a woman who had stitches is having sex the day after having that baby.

And let's just say for argument's sake you are real (which I don't believe for a moment), you are clearly masochistic and need help, or your husband is an abusive asshole, and you need help.

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Dove - posted on 05/04/2015

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What's in California?

It's not cyberbullying to tell you that you need to seek professional help because if the things you are saying are true... you are in a lot of danger in your life.

You asked what we think... and we told you.

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I saved all this for my lawyer and I am taking it there tommorow. Also I am deleting my profile because yall are being mean. I have found another website where REAL MOMS AND REAL PEOPLE THAT ARENT LIKE YALL ARE GOING AND THEY ARENT JUDGING.. ITS F UP AND F SAD WHEN YOU ASK A QUESTION AND PEOPLE DO EXACTLY WHAT YALL ARE DOING...

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You all are mean to people and this site should be shut down, maybe.I will take them to court and sue them. Its called cyber bullying, its the same thing...

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I have 7kids, they werent all miscarriages and i have already been asked to be a surragate for four different people. As far as the highly abnormal pap tests thats y we had one more baby, before I got anything done and that is one reason y I cant be pregnant again, that and my husband said he would leave if I get pregnant again. He didnt want kids to begin with and we have four and that was pushing it. He was trying to make me happy he said. He.loves them but he doesnt want any more. Our olddest just turned four.

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Ive been smoking cigs since i was eleven and i didnt quit while i was pregnant because they told me to cut back because it would cause stress to both of us. We are close with the neighbors and we can hear them so i know they can hear us and the only child we are taking care of right now is our new born because we moved and are having my other babies sent to us. My mother has them right now. Our new born sleeps all of the time just like most of them do. Thats how we have time. We go outsude to smoke cigs. As far as I am concerned, karma and god. People that judge people that they dont even know personally and dont know the whole situation. Thats All I am saying.

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Its hard to get birth control when you dont have insurance, mine pending because we arent from this place and moved right before having her.

Gena - posted on 05/04/2015

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Yep I agree,you really need professional help! Shame,your poor kids. Newborn and mommy is more worried about having sex and smoking. Get some help cause you really need it. And that comment about your neighbors hearing you..grow up!!

Dove - posted on 05/04/2015

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lol Well, this is the most entertainment I've read in a while. Thanks for the laughs Aly....

Troll or woman in desperate need of professional psychological and medical help immediately. Take your pick, but either way... you need some help and intervention... not an online crystal ball that can give you a pregnancy test.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 05/04/2015

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Well, first of all, no one here can tell you if you are pregnant or not. No matter how similiar a situation someone has been in, we cannot tell you.

Secondly, everyone has already told you how bad it is for you to have sex 2 days after giving birth....multiple times a day I might add. You want another baby so bad? Guess what....your uterus hasn't even begun to heal at that point and you could miscarry, or even have a uterine rupture. Yeah...fun.

I bet the duggars even wait to have sex lol...

Also, it really sounds like you are totally and completely unbalanced. You really should look into therapy...damn,,,,I need some just from reading your posts. Also, if your husband is so untrustworthy, and such a jerk for making you have sex so soon,....he is a very bad man and isn't worth the time of day.

Also, you think you are going to be a surrogate and you smoke...and you have had 16 miscarriages? Nope....to top it off you won't see a doctor? Even about abnormal paps? Yeah....double nope. It costs a hell of a lot of money to have a surrogate, and no one is going to pay for a women with your history. Sorry...Triple nope.

Gena - posted on 05/04/2015

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I wonder HOW should we know if you are pregnant or not??Do you think this is an online pregnancy test?? You are a troll or a very weird person. Have sex all day to keep your husband? I mean come on! Let me guess..you are a teenager that is obsessed with the duggars and Bates and You wish you would have so many kids. (I know i dont) And girl,i had stiches..NO WAY way would any normal person want sex after getting stiches. I could barely wipe myself with toilet paper. Jee I don't even want to think of the pain to have sex. Ooooutch!

Michelle - posted on 05/04/2015

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Like I have said: HOW THE HELL DO WE KNOW IF YOU'RE PREGNANT?
Go to your doctor or take a test.
If you don't want to be pregnant then use BC!!!!! SIMPLE.
Seriously, you don't make sense.

Raye - posted on 05/04/2015

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Aly, EVERYTHING you're doing is completely unhealthy.
1) Sex right after birth is extremely unhealthy. The other ladies are right, you should wait at least 6 weeks to let your body heal.
2) Your constantly wanting to be pregnant is unhealthy.
3) Your relationship is very unhealthy if you can't trust him... you jeopardize your health to have sex with him to try to keep him and have apps to track him... jezus christ woman!.
4) Your smoking is unhealthy.
You need to get into counseling.

It is possible you could be pregnant again, but we would not be able to tell you that. You need to talk to your doctor. I don't care if you hate doctors. You need to get medical help. And as I said already, you should get psychological help as well.

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Or if somone else had same problems so I could possibly rule out pregnancy, thats all i want!!!!!! I hate doctors and havent been to a 6week check up since my 3rd pregnancy.

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All I am trying to do is find out if I AM PREGNANT AGAIN!!! THATS ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I WAS hoping someone might read this that actually had similar situation, not everyone else.

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And I am not the only one that has had sex this soon either. You are obvioisly sheltered!! My HUSBAND GETS EVERYTHING HE WANTS from me. The other day he went to work withoit doing anything anyways and he didnt hear the end of it anyways because I dont trust him. I also have us on mama bear cell phonet tracker and the zoe mob one. Look them up also if you dont believe me that they have them.i love my apps...

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You all are starting to f piss me off!!!, you want to call and ask my husband? With my second with my stupid ex husband i had sex at one day which lucky we didnt get caught and i had sex with my fifth the same day with thus husband because I delivered at a child birthing center called lisa ross and got to leave same day. You want to call and ask them? I told them about it! You want to ask oir neighbors because they hear us all the time? Also wirh my first and second is the only ones I had stitches with and the only thing that helps the itching is sex. I didnt have stitches witg the others and was up not even 30min after birth out smoking a cig. When you have easy and normal deliverys and they are your multiple preg. Than you can do more including sex. Look it up or start asking people you dont know that are around you.,. I had my last one at a hotel

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Thank you. I think and hope its not too late because the reason we.had her was in case I lost my fertility and I wouldnt let them do anything to me while I was pregnant with her. I had a miscarriage last may at eleven weeks and had to wait even longer than I should be because I have not seen a doctor about it but I had a highly abnormal pap test almost two years ago and while I was pregnant with her it came back highly abnormal again and cerviacal cancer.runs in my family. My younger cousin had it twice. So I cant be pregnant due to having to have more tests and whatever else needs to be done. I figured I hadnt got pregnant yet this early so I was safe but never had this happen before and if I am my husband is going to be pissed because she was our fourth and he doesnt want any more. My other 3 are with my ex husband. My oldest will be 9 this year. I got married at 19 with him and that was a mistake but I dont regret my 3 babies with him. Yes all my pregnancies were planned but this one would not be. And now to the girl that posted and says I am a breeder... If its anyones buisness I love being pregnant and ever since I was a teenager I have followed 19 kids and counting and now growing up bates so call it what you want, i dont really care. I also had it planned to be a surrogate also which means if I dont lose my fertility I will be pregnant with someones baby and not of my own... And the reason why I have sex is because my husband wont stay home and I have trust issues so I figured as long as I have sex he wont do anything behind my back. At least thats what I hope and pray anyways. My ex husband cheated and my husband admitted he cheated on all his ex girlfriends but promise he wont to me but I still worry and I found porn on his phone while I was in the hospital after having her and he has never done that before but he still denying it when it was on his search history and no one else uses his phone. He also stares at females and lies to me all the time. The couple days I was in the hospital he didnt even visit and he didnt have.our.other little ones.with him, they were at my mothers so I wonder what he was really doing because I couldnt get a hold him on his phone either.

Gena - posted on 05/03/2015

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I am speechless. Why would you have sex two days after you give birth? And how do you find time to have sex twice a day with a newborn and 6 other kids? I would go see a doctor. I can't imagine having sex two days after giving birth being healthy!

Michelle - posted on 05/03/2015

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Well after 16 pregnancies you know what causes it so if you don't want to fall pregnant you should take precautions.
Like the others have said, you shouldn't have sex until at least 6 weeks after birth so your body can heal properly.
Go and see your doctor because we have no idea what is going on with your body.

Ev - posted on 05/03/2015

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Maria--I am sorry to say that is a lot of nonsense. No doctor is going to tell you its okay to have sex a couple weeks after having a baby. It takes at least six weeks to get back to somewhat normal. And the pull out method dos not work.

Aly--You need to do as Dove suggested and go seek medical attention to be sure what is going on. If you find you are not pregnant, then do not have sex until six weeks out from birth or when the doctor tells you it is fine to do so.

Maria - posted on 05/03/2015

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First congratulations on the birth of ur daughter . When you ever told by any of ur ob/gun drs that it is recommended for you to not have no sexual intercourse for the 1st 2 wks after delivery. You need to make sure that you are healing. Yo have a large family n must have enormous love for it husband to be willing to put urself n ur body through another pregnancy already. I am only giving you What I have experienced n what I have been told. I know a few woman who got pregnant 2 wks after giving birth. I was tld it is easier to become pregnant during that time especially not knowing when we r evaluating. I did get that what looks like what u see in a egg..the white thing with the little string when I became pregnant. But u just had a baby 2 wks ago. What I wld say to u...is to use some sort of protection if u do not want to become pregnant.. Anything..even just pulling out lol.. Good luck to you

Dove - posted on 05/03/2015

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What kind of idiot has unprotected sex or any sex at all when their baby is only TWO DAYS OLD?!

I'd say it's possible you are pregnant, but it's also highly likely you've contracted a serious infection from having sex before your body has healed from the birth... better go see a doctor asap.

Though reading through your entire post... I'd say you are either a troll or nothing more than a breeder...

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