Magnolia - posted on 02/26/2013 ( 11 moms have responded )
I will do my best to do a quick story... please ask questions if that will help you give me your un emotional opinion.
I am 33. I have a daughter that is 3 1/2. I have fallin in love with a man that is everything I have been looking for. We are pregnant. It is an early relationship (6 months) and he has a very bad criminal past. On paper he is a registered sex offender from when he was 16 (he was an accessory to; didn't committ the rape), and another rape case that was dismissed because it was an ex that made up stories of him raping her and since he was on parole they of course investigated it. He is currently arraigned in another case that has nothing to do with violence.
My father is scared and living in fear for my and my daughters safety. But will not meet this man and talk to him face to face. I accept where his fears are coming from but I am pissed that he is not trusting my judgement or even wanting to meet him to get a feel for the man he is now! I bel;ieve that people can change. There has been nothing hidden from me and the background check goes along with what was told to me. My father is telling me that I am being extremely reckless and irresponible, but I know this man, he does not! He even called me insane.
This is just of what I can say for now.
I AM CONFUSED!! and in a very emotional state... I need unbiased un emotional opinions!!! Thank you