Help! I am not a mother but a daughter and a sister who needs to release some emotions!!!

Sonia - posted on 11/10/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )

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Hey mom! My name is Sonia. I am not a mother but a sister. I have a lot of pain inside me right now and I just want to release it. Basically, on 22nd October 2012, my mum gave birth to my beautiful baby brother. Unfortunalely, we had already lost him 20 minutes before my mum gave birth to him. Her pregnancy was fine and there were no problems. It has been such a tough time for us espcecially my mother as she carried my brother in her belly for 9 months. I find myself thinking about him everyday and getting upset and thinking about how my day would be if he was here and what I would be doing instead of what I am really doing, so I really cannot imagine what my mother is going through. I am her eldest child, and I have two younger brothers. We are trying to be very strong for her and are by her side every moment. I can't really say any of this to my mum because she will get upset, but I really need to ask someone this. Do you think she should have another baby eve though she has three children already and is 40 years old? I know that another baby certainly cannot replace my little baby brother, but I don't know if it would help and if that is what my mother wants. I worry about my mother alot and I just want her to be safe, healthy and happy. So what do you think? do you think she should try for another baby? what would you do. I know that nobody can say what to do and at the end of the day it is down to my mum and what her and my father think is best, but I just want your opinion and advice. Thanks- S x

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Lacye - posted on 11/10/2012

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If it was me, I wouldn't. But ultimately it is completely up to her. Having another child is really not on her mind right now. Who knows, she might have decided on her own that she doesn't want another one.

Sonia - posted on 11/10/2012

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I would really apprecite your help and advice and what I can do to help my mother. xxx

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