Chelsie - posted on 01/17/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )
My husband is in the army and is deploying soon. We weren't planning on trying, but we recently thought I might be pregnant but the test was negative.. We both really loved the idea and I cannot wait to be a mom, but again, he deploys soon for 9 months and after he comes home he is getting out. If I do conceive, what are the pros and cons of him being away for our first pregnancy?
If we decide to try, health care and hospital bills would be all taken care of, which would make things much easier finance wise and if we wait we'd have to pay it on our own.
I just keep going in a circle and can't decide. We really want a baby, but is it worth the wait?