help I don't know who the father is!!

Ashley - posted on 12/25/2014 ( 1 mom has responded )




Me and my son's father broke up and I had sex with a guy Oct 8 but I bled Oct 19 but only for 4 days but a week later I started bleeding again for 5 days.. I took a test and took a pregnancy test at the Dr's ans it came up negative.. I got back with my son's father had sex on Nov 13 and found out I was pregnant Dec 1.. help me I heard this bleeding I had was a sign of pregnancy..


Jodi - posted on 12/25/2014




Well, we can't tell you who the baby's father is. But given you already have a child, do you really think it is wise to be bed-hopping whenever you have a relationship problem with his father?

Anyway, you are now going to have to wait until the baby is born before you can possibly know for certain who the father is.

I'd also advise getting counselling together if your relationship is as fragile as this, if nothing else, for the sake of your son. Even if you don't stay together, you need to be able to be responsible co-parents to your son. But you certainly can't be coming and going from each other's lives in the way you describe here if you want to provide your child with a good, stable home environment, whether together or apart.

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