Help I'm pregnant and 13


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Ariana - posted on 12/25/2013




Where I live you can call a pregnancy councellor for help. Can you look online to see if that is available where you are? Is there someone else you can speak to.

You have three options: abortion, adoption and parenting.

A pregnancy councellor should be able to help you in this decision. Talking to your parents or another trusted adult is also very important.

In my area you can also get an abortion without your parents consent if you are 13 or over. I'm not saying you should or shouldn't do this, just that it is an option to consider if you are scared or in danger somehow by your parents if you tell them (once again not saying you should or shouldn't take this action).

Whatever option you decide to take it should be based on what YOU want to do.

I am a teenager mother and it is difficult, you will not get to experience your teenage years the same way as others. You will not go to college the same way others will. I do not regret my decision to parent my child, but I also do not get to go to college parties or do the same things other people my age get to do because I am responsible for a child. It is not easy.

Just try to consider all three options and figure out what is best for you.

Amy - posted on 12/25/2013




You need to tell your parents, if you're scared have a trusted adult sit down with you when you tell them.

Savanah Elyse - posted on 12/25/2013




What do you need help with or about? Tell your parents, go to the doctors, talk about your options, adoption, parenting, or other options, figure out what your going to do and get a plan fast, make sure u stay in school, good luck

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