Kelly - posted on 02/05/2014 ( 1 mom has responded )
I know being stressed is not good for me right now, but having a life changing event has triggered so much. I am wanting to move closer to my family, but my boyfriend can't right now and wants me to stay. The thing is... He has no stable job, no car, lives with his mother, and can't even pay child support on his other kid. He's at risk for going to jail.... ( I know... I picked a real winner). He says he really loves me and wants to be apart of this kiddos life. He seems really excited about the baby, but I'm having issues with him not bringing enough to the table. I understand he has a lot on his plate and can't up and move with me. Ugh... I guess I'm mainly scared of doing this alone and I'm resenting everything. Again, not healthy. Being a single mom wasn't on my life plan. I come from a very loving and stable family. Lost and looking for tips on coping and managing stress and guilt.