Sandy - posted on 08/27/2016 ( 6 moms have responded )
I have 2 daughters with my ex husband an 11 year old with special needs and a 5 year old. We got divorced in 2014 at the time of the divorce I let him have custody of our oldest only due to her being closer to her dad and I kept the youngest . We did not add child support and aranged we would have the other every other weekend. When I seprated from him my now 5 year old was only 11 months and I never had him asking if she needed clothes, diapers or any thing and he would only come around to see her lie once every 3 months and my now fiance has been the one helping care for her since her dad hasnt. After the divorce he never followed about letting me have our oldest every other weekend and would bring her when he wanted and would sometimes try getting me to keep her during the week for him able to go to work at one time he didnt bring her or let me know any thing for 5 months befor bringing her againing to me for 1 moth befor we started haveing problems again. He travels to his country and takes our daughter without telling me hes leaveing and never tells me if shes sick and in the hospital. I have not let our youngest go with him since october last year due to problems he wont fix like havein a bed for her at his aparment and getiing one that is 2 rooms as of right now he has 1 bed room aparment and has his bed in the same room with my oldest daughter which I fell isnt right. On top of that my fiance dosent like he wasnts to try seeing her but not help support his own daughter and has another man takeing care of his daughter becuse he wont. ( my ex husband also dosent work daily he is self employed and has been mostly liveing off the oldest SSI even while I was with him).
Now he has a lawyer and I all ready got papers saying he is takeing me to court due to keepiing the daughter from him, not helping him care about the oldest and keeping the sisters away from each other I need some advice from other moms about this that gone throught stuff thank you.