Leslie - posted on 05/01/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )
Hi , well im 35 weeks pregnant and my husband wants to have sex but i cnt ! well i can but i dnt want too, i feel fat and ugly plus my body looks weird lol. The truth is the last time we had sex was 6 weeks ago and i just did it , to get him off my back lol. Its because i felt so stupid having sex with him, i was thinking the whole time i must look so dumb lol and i felt bad. I hate how my body looks and how much weight i gained through out this pregnancy :( . I talked to my husband about how i feel, but he laughs at me and tells me how beautiful my body is, and he tells me your pregnant and I love you for carrying my little angel. But anyways I cnt see myself having sex again while im pregnant, i feel so silly and well being pregnant hasnt been easy for me. So what to do?? Is it bad to keep telling him no to sex??? I have needs too lol, but i dnt feel sexy at all !!! I just want to know , am I wrong? Any advice will help, any opnions too.. Thank you ...