Help Im freaking out... pregnant again

Momma - posted on 01/30/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )

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K so my baby boy just turned 5 months and I just found out I am pregnant again.. And we do use condoms. I dont know what to do i am devastated I was not ready for my fitst baby but would not change the fact that I kept him for anything in the world. I think abortions are so wrong and just the fact that i have been thinking about it for the past 3 days drives me crazy i just want to cry and i am feeling depressed already,And everyone i know is against it so I have no one to talk to..We can barely make ends meat and I am not a kid person I am surprised I am even as good as I am being a mom to my baby boy.. I dont know what I would do with another baby my place is Teeny and we are broke and i dont think i could be mentally stable having to take care of another baby by myself (My boyfriends works 12 hours a day from 5pm to 5am)... But i cant stand the thought of like killing someone and I know i could not live with myself going though with adoption.. Im scarred if I have an abortion i will have mental problems and hate myself and not be able to get over it and forgive myself.. i frown upon ppl who use this method. but if i have the baby i dont know if ill be able to provide for him and take care of him like i should... What do I do

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Dove - posted on 01/31/2013

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If you feel like this now about abortion... do NOT do it. My mom didn't want to go through w/ it, but she did and it has haunted her for over 40 years.

Is adoption an option you would consider?

Posted that without reading your update... Hang in there!! It'll all work out somehow. ♥

Momma - posted on 01/31/2013

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Thank you Amy, my boyfriend came home from work last night telling me we could keep it and that he would never force anything like that on me. He said that I was silly to have been worrying all night and that I should stop thinking he is such a dick ! lol I am so relieved ! :D

Amy - posted on 01/31/2013

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If you are so against abortion maybe you should really consider adoption. You could do an open adoption, I would suggest reading up on it and seriously consider it as an option, but other than keep it those really are your only 3 options.

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