Jessica - posted on 11/06/2009 ( 19 moms have responded )
Hello all, I need help with a big concern of mine. I'm expecting my first child, due in just a couple weeks (Nov 25th). My husband is already talking about bringing her to family member's home, which is of course understandable. I'm concerened about his grandmother's home. She isn't capable of cleaning and has a lot of animals, therefore there is mold on some of the walls and the home smells of mildew plus animal urine/feces. I have asthma and I'm not sure if thats going to have any affect on my daughter. His grandmother isn't capable of traveling either so the only way to see her great grandchild is for us to come to her. My question is if it would be alright to bring my baby to her home and if so for how long and if not how can I say no to my husband and his grandmother so they understand and don't get their feelings hurt?