Help me, my 18 year old son has a woman shoe and being kicked fetish..Please help me!

Karen - posted on 04/01/2013 ( 5 moms have responded )

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I have learned that my son has a fetish with being kicked in his private area with woman's shoes. I have no idea if this is normal or what to think. I feel as though I failed somewhere along the line being a young single mom with 3 children. My two older children do not have any of these issues, so this is all new to me. I am worried because he seems to ask random girls to do this just about any female to be honest, afraid he will be hurt someday and I do not understand his behavior. Can you please help!

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Liz - posted on 04/01/2013

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To be honest, if he's not doing something illegal, hurting anyone and not causing himself any permanent damage with the activity, then he's an adult who is entitled to indulge in whatever form of fetish he wants. It really is up to him who he asks to help him do this.

If you don't want it happening under your roof then you can ask him not to do this on your property while he lives with you, but that's about it really. I'm curious - how did you find out?

Liz - posted on 04/01/2013

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Not being able to judge whom to ask does make it seem that his behaviour is inappropriate. If you've tried to talk to him about it and he just says he doesn't know why he asks random (inappropriate) people, then did he say that he'd try not to ask random people?

If he can't control his behaviour, then he should probably see a psychiatrist to help him work through the issue.

Georgette - posted on 04/01/2013

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Hello, my friend has a fetish with women giving him shocks on his penis and testicles, and let me tell you it it is not your fault it is something that he finds erotic just like many people find erotic dirty talk, feet, ears, etc, maybe talking to him will help not trying to correct him just talking as an open minded mom asking him if he knows the risks and listening to what he has to say, understand him and try to explain him what is scaring you but without pushing it, I am sure he knows when he is getting hurt and when it is just for fetish

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Karen - posted on 04/01/2013

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Thank you so much, we just had a a talk and he told me it has nothing to do with sex but he does not know why he asks random females, that part is not so much my issue it is my friends and our family he has asked that bothers me. Then at the same time he does not see it as a sexual act so I am even more lost now after our talk.

Karen - posted on 04/01/2013

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First of all thank you so much. I ended up finding out when a few of my friends called saying "I think your sons Facebook has been hacked someone keeps asking me to kick him in the balls" so we changed his password and still kept happening he finally told me he asked a few people. I have told him he just can-not go around asking all of my friends and our customers to do this. I told him he is sexually harassing some people and he told me it has nothing to do with sex...I am so lost

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