Melissa - posted on 05/16/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )
My wonderful son is now 2.5 years old. The bio father who is a drug addict wants supervised visitation! Now?! He hasn't seen Ashton since he was 10 weeks old. We were both drug users together until I got my life together. I have been sober since September 2010. Bio father however is still using. He passed two clean drug tests which he decided he would take randomly in the last six months and completed a parenting course. He is still self medicating on prescriptions including; xanax, adderal, colonopin & suboxon and although he is prescribed he is still using them! He is a dangerous person and obsessed with BB guns! I do not want Ashton to ever know him and I'm pushing for TPR! I have a bad history, however I am sober today and enjoying my life with my beautiful Ashton. Help! We were married and I'm seeking divorce, the mediator pushed me into a corner. Just because he went to a handful of parenting classes and passed two drug tests (no child support because he seeks SSI for being bipolar) this does not mean he should get supervised visitation!!! Correct? Thoughts & comments please! I have worked so hard in my life to get sober, stay sober, get a good job and be a happy young single mom... Why does he deserve supervised visitation?!? He has no lawyer either... I think my lawyer and mediator are screwing me on this one!