Help! My 15 year old and my Fiance are driving me nuts!

Marlene - posted on 10/28/2011 ( 4 moms have responded )

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Please help me any advice, i have 3 boys 15,8,1,. my 15 year old son has started to steal in the house . i am so tired of siting down with him and talking to him in a very nice way and let him explain to me why is he doing this. i give him money every 2 weeks. i yell at him sometimes and nothing.he is a striaght A student at high school he is in the 11th grade 1 more year to finish he is an honor student.well i am stress with him already i tried a lot. and so so , this morning my fiance tells me check his book bag. i 'm like why he took your money again? he is like no because he got in trouble in school playing in the class rooom with playing cards. ok i check and he had 4 dvds games. i was in schock i told my son again and he just laugh i don't know how it got there. i let it go.every week its something with my fiance and my son.my fiance just love to hear he took something.and i have told my fiance do you have something against my son. he claims not to be.but i sometimes think he is the one putting things in his book bag. i don't know who to beleave any more. i am not gonna put my fiance first, when it comes to my boys.he only has 1 from me .my 15 year old is from past relationship.this is goign on every week . i am stress with both of them already.i am tired of talking and explaining myself.but no they keep on. i just want to blow up and curse at them .but i have held my tounge for to long.and its going to come out wrong.my fiance was in the military for 8 years i think he is a little crazy. he was marry in the past and i use to spy in his email.i use to see ex comments on him saying he is crazy . he is a good guy he helps me out .and helps me with my kids when in need and helps around the house.but he has something with my son he dosen't like.i just don't know what to do anymore.

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Marlene - posted on 10/30/2011

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To sharlene , no not really he hardly hangs out with no friends.the reason why i think he is doing all of this its because he is into yu-gi-oh cards.and he is selling them .but he is a diabetic child since the age of 2 years old. and now that he is more intependent he wants more and more stuff. and i know my son more than his own father. sometimes i think its my fiance causing the problems, because he starts to say things first . i just put cameras in all rooms.i just want to make sure what is really going on. i can't take the arguments any more. i install small little cameras they can't see. it has come to this i just don't know who to beleave anymore.i just think my fiance wants me to get rid of my son and its not happening before i do that i will throw him out first.

Sharlene - posted on 10/28/2011

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Hi he might be going through those teenage years with hormones, peer pressure, there could be a million reason why his behavior is happening .Have you spoken to his school,Is he hanging around with a wrong group of friends. please dont take this the wrong way but drugs, do you have family members to talk to him? cheers

Amy - posted on 10/28/2011

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Could your son have a gambling problem? Lieing, cards, stealing money, maybe the DVDs are payment for debts owed?

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