Kathy - posted on 02/18/2014 ( 55 moms have responded )
OK so my kids were at school and I noticed lately she has been acting strange not wanting me in her room and I thought it was because it was messy and she knows I am a neat freak. So today I thought I would clean it up for her. When I was cleaning her bathroom ( she has her own bathroom) I would a pregnancy test and it said positive, now I thought it was fake but when I keptm cleaning I found books on how to be a teen mom and that was when I freaked out. Later when she and my other kids came home from school I asked her if I could have a private talk with her. I told her about what I found and she replied, " it went by so fast.... one second we were talking on his bed but the next thing I knew was he started having sex with me". Now I understood that it wasn't her fault because I became pregnant with her at age 17 and it was cause of the same reason. I told her that but I told her not to expect her father to be happy. When she told him she started to cry because it wasn't her fault but thankfully he was the one that got me pregnant with her so he understood. We talked with the dad's parents and they said they were mad but adjusted to it. I am happy for her and not happy because I am only 33 and JUST had twins 4 days ago. I have 6 kids( 3 older ones, 3 younger) and the older ones are probably ready to be an aunt but not the younger kids are not. I am desperate for advice and help!!!!!