Amber - posted on 02/22/2016 ( 4 moms have responded )
My fiance and I have known each other for 6 years, been together for 4 years, and living together for 3 years. I have 2 sons (12 and 9) from a previous marriage, he has 1 daughter (12) from a previous marriage and we have a daughter together (17 mths). I adore my step daughter and my family has accepted her from day 1 with open arms. Unfortunately his family has not done the same with my boys. They never get any acknowledgement on their birthdays or at Christmas and my stepdaughter receives gifts from them. I have bit my tongue for quite a while and even mentioned this year when asked what I wanted for Christmas I replied "Don't get me anything, just buy for our kids" and of course they got nothing. I have asked my fiance many times to say something and he never does. So my oldest son was having a birthday dinner at a local restaurant and I invited only my family (because his family has shown no interest in my children from day 1) Well my fiance invited his sister and kids and I was mad that he never discussed it with me so we had an argument. He then called her and told her that I didn't want her there and that I said she is mean to my kids. (While yes it was true, I never wanted it said to her or his other sister or parents in that way) Seconds later his youngest sister sends me a nasty text telling me that me and my children are no longer welcome at any of their families homes. after that I get a text from his mom saying "You know you just made a BIG mistake" So now I don't know what to do. While I wanted them to accept my children, I did not want to go about it in this way. HELP, I don't know what to do from here, if anything.