Philo - posted on 01/13/2014 ( 3 moms have responded )
Hello everyone . I'm mixed and I had a daughter for a black man and now I am married to a white Lebanese man. I have 5 kids in total but four of them is for my Lebanese husband. My daughter is 17 years old and my Lebanese husband has been taking care of my daughter since she was 1 year. I just told her recently that her current father is not her biological father . And she was not too surprised cause she was already suspecting that something was wrong. And she did burst into tears when I told her, I had to fly to the uk with her to show her , her grandmother from her biological father. Now she is even more confused than ever cause, she now believes that she does not belong to anywhere. Sometimes she looks at celebrity kids that have mixed moms and black dads. And still wonder that if her mom is mixed and her real dad is black y doesn't she still look like them. She has lost her confidence totally in her self . My problem is that I don't know why I relaxed her beatiful curly hair she used to have , her hair curls a bit now but it is still total damaged. And she just cut her hair last week really short. I wish I could post a picture of she when she was a kid , before she cut her hair and now. How can I help her gain her confidence and help her get her curly hair back. Plsss I need your help to help my daughter.