help my soon to bex husband is trying to wet nurse my son with his sister

Brittany - posted on 11/01/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )

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me and my soon to be ex husband were in court for a domestic violence protection order and in that protection order the first Judge granted him can to have visitation for a few hours each day and then that he did not use one visitation in two weeks the next judged granted that he could take him for an overnight visitation knowing that I didn't have a way to feed the child because I'm only producing what he eats I do not have a pump and the child has been with me a hundred percent of the time fully breastfed not bottle trained and my son is a stranger to the Father and the father's family and the mother of my ex husband said the comment that if he's hungry enough he will take a bottle so basically they're making my son to sacrificeand putting him through all kinds of emotional and mental stress and taking him from me without even bring the option to the court with the judge his attorney just told me that that they're going to have his sister be a wet nurse with no proof of certification no proof of testing to see if she has any infections or anything I don't know what to do is there anyone out here who can help me I wanted visitations to be in the best interest of the child though there needs to be some kind of time for transition this guy it pretty much abandon us in our home that we shared together and then send me text messages from his father saying that we need to pack up our belongings and leave which I did the story goes on and on I just need a quick answer to the fact that I have to give him again to the father next Friday for a whole 24 hours with no food from me

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Jodi - posted on 11/01/2014

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Also, does the court order say anything about how the baby will be fed? You can actually have it specified in court orders, but if it isn't specified, he can pretty much do what he likes.

Jodi - posted on 11/01/2014

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You have until next Friday. You need to go and get a pump and start pumping. If you pump after each feed this week, freeze what you can, you will have enough by Friday to get through.

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