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so its been a while ladies but, just to sum it up i'm in school yay!!!!! (graduate january 2014), working as a home health aide (when i was doing the training from july/2012-November/2012 that's when the problems started) hopefully i can get some helpful advice. so my sons dad was constantly arguing and disrespecting his mom in front of my son to the point that while i was working she would leave me voicemails telling me to come pick up my son and how his dad don't take care of him and he got females around him i ignored it for a few (this started last year) then on january 1 i actually heard it on the phone she called me and they were just going at it and i heard my son crying and it sounded like he was going to hit her calling her all types of bitches. so i took my son and told him i would not have my son come over ever again, he disrespect me told me i was doing all this because supposedly i still have feeling for him and that he don't fucking love me and i was doing it on purpose. Mind u he had the audacity to ask me for MY TAX MONEY only because he was watching him while i was in training and even when i left my son with him my son would cry bloody murder. So him and his family has not seen him since. now i know is affecting my son because he ask me about them so my question is should i contact them to see the baby ? mind you he only have text me twice one for february and one for march and it always leads to arguments. Because he don't know how constantly actually hold a convo. but I'm worried about my son behaviour for example he is constantly angry at everything and always want to fight he sometimes don't eat and throw temper tantrums like a 4yr old and how he looks for a dad in all the men he see in the street. Any POSITIVE advice would be appreciated btw he would be spending summer in columbia with my family because i am going to be in school for 6 classes this summer and my aunt and her husband told me he needed a stable two parent home for a a few.