Lynn - posted on 03/04/2017 ( 6 moms have responded )
I will give a brief background. This is a second marriage for both of us. We have been married 5 years. Both have children from our previous marriages, none together. I paid for most of our house from settlement of my first marriage then we have all the regular bills and I have a car payment. Problems are. My husband dislikes my children (they are well behaved , 1 is in college the other high school), he expects me to pay half the bills and my own car payment, wants to continue paying for his son in college after he is 21 and not putting the money up toward our future. He works part time and basically is not even meeting his bills after child support. He stays home all day to gamble online and that is why he doesn't work full time. Gambling makes him miserable and takes time away from activities that we could be doing together. I love him but I feel like I'm not being treated fairly. When I try to talk to him about it I'm being a bitch and he points out all the stuff he does do. Any advice????