Help! Need advise

Michelle - posted on 04/16/2014 ( 4 moms have responded )

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Husband wont introduce me to his kids, we have been married over a yr and together for almost 5. he has a 17 and 3 (yes do the math ladies) and I have a 17 and 15. This is both second marriages. We have had our issues and huge arguments over parenting styles and discipline but he tell that until I can learn to discipline my child (only the oldest mind you) that meeting his kids isnt going to happen. I am seriously stressing about this. There is more history to us and this but that is the jist of it. What to do???

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Sarah - posted on 04/16/2014

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Then it might be you needing to decide what/how you want your life to be. You can't change him. You have to decide if this is the life you want.

Sarah - posted on 04/16/2014

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My suggestion would be marriage counseling. These are issued that should have been addressed BEFORE marriage. Now you have to back track, which may make things much harder.

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~♥Little Miss - posted on 04/16/2014

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Yeah.....I would never have married a man without meeting his kids and making sure we get along. He has absolutely no right to say anything about your parenting, when you aren't allowed to even see him interact with his. Why did you marry this man???

Michelle - posted on 04/16/2014

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we have discussed it and at first he was open to it but now he doesn't think it will do any good. i am already seeing a therapist for this and just piece of mind.

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