Pocahantas55 - posted on 07/12/2012 ( 4 moms have responded )
It is a possibility that the father my daughter knowns is not her real father and he is now requesting a DNA test to be done, asap!
First of all he has always been an absent father and no child support. He is now fighting a suspension on his DL and he has been insisting to drop him from child support. Because I have not agreed to this, he is now requesting for this to be done. Which it is a possibility because I revealed it to him abt 5 years ago. He did not want to do anything than nor was he really in her life financially or emotionally. My daughther does not want to have anything with him and consider my father , her grandpa her dad. I am really worry the affect it will have on my daughter, i love her dearly and have always done everything for her. I have had two jobs and maintained her in a private school all her life, she is now a senior and I dont know how this will have an impact on her. I was scared when all this occured and didnt know what to do, so i never said nothing. The other possible dad is aware of the posibilty but felt he was never the dad.
Can someone please advise in how to help my daughter deal with this and how I can inform her of this....to make it better for her.