HELP!! One painful cramp and bleeding until now, no sack found in u/s, said ectopic gestation

Jacque - posted on 03/23/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )

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what i am experiencing right now is what probably happened when i becme pregnant and miscarried almost 3 years ago. when the OB referred me for transvaginal u/s and BHCG, at first they can't see anything (i guess it was too early). then my OB told me maybe it was an ectopic, i searched a lot about ectopic preg and in my mind and belief, i dont have the symptons like pain. i insist to checked me again. so we did another u/s and BHCG after 2 days. the BHCG result doubled and seems normal for a pregnant, but they can't see fetus yet. i am also a PCOS.
and there's a slight pain when the probe (transvi test) hit this thing on my right side ovary (cyst).
i am confused but as it was my body, i can still feel that my baby is fighting for it's life. the OB gave me duvadilan, my colleague asked my why not duphaston so it can help the fetus survived.
then suddenly my OB wants me to have this immediate operation, cut my right side of fallopian tube as she said i have this ecotpic preg. i wont believe her then so i walked out. then after that, i heavily bleed for 3 days and a blood 1month fetus shape came out of me.. i know it was my baby and i cried. i cried for the the things i know that OB doesnt know what she's doing. i think she's not helping me.
i consult an OB (thank God she's to helpful and kind) after a week, to have a peace of mind to that kind of ectopic preg thing tha latter OB said to me. she studied my previous pregnancy exams and result. she dont see any ectopic sign. but she gave a tablet so the remaining bloods will came out of me.
and now here i am again, have my last mens and after a week i slightly bled and have this preg test, twas positive but again, worried. i still spotting right now, 1 pad a day but not that full, maybe a half of it with blood for a whole day. i have one painful cramp and bleed but stop after less 8hours. so i went to my OB, done again transvaginal but can't see a sac, the remarks is ectopic gestation but what the Dr sees is what they saw 3years ago when i miscarried. a mass on my right ovary. (what i believe the result of being a PCOS, treated it before with b.c pill.. my friend advice me to wait for another weeks, transvaginal dont see everything. i prayed to God for this. i still believe that it will challenge my believe on Him. and thanking for my OB now that she still hoping for me that all will be alright. she too also confuse that my result n my transvaginal u/s is absolutely like the result of my transvi 3years ago.
my heart leap when i read about some women who ended n successful pregnancy even they have the same situation like me. God bless us all. :)

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