help! our daughter wont stop bringing men home and she has a a 2 year old!

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Ev - posted on 10/19/2013

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I can understand the worries you have about this but your daughter is an adult and she will do what she thinks is best for her child even if it means allowing the sleeping arrangements she has and introducing all these men to the child. You can tell her how you see it and suggest she change it but in the end it is her choice. Is any of this endangering your grandchild? Do you have reasons to believe that the men she dates are really going to do harm to this child? Have you had any given reason to suspect such problems as abuse, neglect or both? If this is just out of concern, as I said there is not much you can say in the raising of your granddaughter as her mom seems to be doing what she needs to. I wish I could give you more advice but unless you feel mom is not fit for raising this child or the men are a big problem or worry and could cause real harm, there is not much to be done.

Lisa - posted on 10/19/2013

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hi Evelyn. we keep our grandaughter while our daughter works her job. our daughter lives on her own. yes, our grandaughter is exposed to every guy...and our grandaughter is special needs so she has been ill alot, in and out of the hospital qiute often. our grandaughter sleeps with her mom, although she has her own bedroom set up very nicely..she still sleeps with her mom. and our daughter doesnt think its a big deal...actually she gets furious when I even say a word about how wrong it is. I need some advice..bad. my husband and I are at our wits end.

Ev - posted on 10/19/2013

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I get your point in not liking this but what about the living arrangements? Is she in her own place or with you? Does she have adequate care set up for her daughter for when she dates? Does she intro her child to each man? We need more information before we can give you any thoughts on this.

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