Help!!! scared mum to be

Becky - posted on 12/28/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )

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Hi Everyone, I've had 3msc in the last 2 years which was very hard to deal with but I got to up and kept trying again, I Already have a child he is 3 years old, everything was fine with him the labour the birth and then I go on to having another child to having 3 mscs in a row, I had all the tests which all came back clear so I carried on and tried again 6 months later I finally conceived and I though I was turning 8 weeks from last period but I went for a scan yesterday (27/12/12) Due to Spotting bleeding and with the last 3 mscs I didn't want to take any chances, I was feeling positive until I had the scan which they said they could only find the sac :S which I was scared about so she offered me a internal scan, She still couldn't find the heartbeat or the baby so I was very upset but they told me to expect the worse and the bleeding will get harder and I will miscarriage, So I wasn't happy after thinking nothing of it but I haven't had any signs of miscarriage and I'm not bleeding, They measured the sac to being 6 weeks 3 days I have to be re-scanned next Thursday which is the 3rd Jan 2013 It's going to be the hardest week of my life, Has anyone else had a similar experience and had a positive outcome? What do I do expect the worse and carry on or keep hoping thanks

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Becky - posted on 12/29/2012

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Thank you Michelle for getting back to me, I Haven't had the rogam shot no, I Passed all my babies naturally all between 6-10 weeks, I still don't understand why it keeps happening, I take everything easy I do everything by the books, Sadly I woke up this morning and bleeding a lot more so I think I am miscarrying as it's the same as the last 3 , I thought everything would of been okay this time round, I hate the pain we go through, I'm keeping my head held high though, keep myself strong for my little boy, xx

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Dear Becky, I am so sorry of your loss. I have been there. I have had 2 miscarriages in a row and later on I had another one ( which was twins..) I had an ultrsound and there was no heartbeat either..
You have to remember one thing.. Not all things are accurate. Alot of times... spotting is coming from not only miscarriages, but implantation of the baby. I was checked more than once to make sure there wasnt a heartbeat through ultrasounds. And yes, There wasnt no heartbeat.. I carried my unborn babies for about 4 months before I took a couple of pills they gave me to loose them.. When I did.. It wasnt too sightful..

But, hopefully yours will turn out better than that this time.. Just try your best to keep your spirits up even though it may be hard to. Stress it the worst thing.

I do have a question for you.. Did you by any chance take a rogam shot after your first miscarriage? If so, you might want to read up on it.. I had a rogam shot after my first son was born and then I got pregnant later on and lost my baby and then another one.. I had found out that rogam can cause miscarriages.

May God be with you and give you strength and comfort through this time.

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