Help! Shared Custody Questions? How to handle it?

Daisy - posted on 11/10/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )

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Hi, I'm new to this and really need some advice...I have a 5 year old son, his father and I were never married.We did a good job at co parenting for years and were actually friends. Nothing more, nothing less. I'm engaged and expecting a baby boy due Jan 14,2013. My sons father is now married and had a baby boy also who is 8months old. Everything changed when he got married. His wife is very jealous of our friendship and wants as little contact as possible. So now he is taking me to court for shared custody.I'm having a really hard time dealing with this. Any suggestions on how to deal with it mentally, and emotionally. Its really stressing me out more than ever. Also, How easy is it for a father in Pa to get shared custody? Thanks!!

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Daisy - posted on 11/11/2012

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Yes, 50/50 is what he wants. He already has him 3 overnights and I have 4. So we almost have it now. Just the schedule he wants is 2/2/3 and I'm concerned when my son started kindergarten next year. He's a mommy's boy and we are really close. He's just used to what we have been doing. I'm having a hard time emotionally now, especially being pregnant its harder. Its all I think about.Thanks

Jodi - posted on 11/10/2012

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By shared custody, do you mean he wants 50/50 custody? And is there some reason you have an issue with him having 50% custody?

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