Mayra - posted on 07/13/2015 ( 12 moms have responded )
Hi My name is Mayra and im seeking for advice im really going crazy!! My fiance who i live with and have a 7 mo old baby with has two kids who are 6 and 9. The 6 year old boy drives me crazy he is so rude and disrespectful he has no manners and whines all the time constantly catch him getting on my babies car seat and hi chair, he always wants to be on his dad. every night he complains of something hurting weather its his feet or head and my fiance is always there rubbing his feet. this little boy is a different person when his dad is not there which makes it harder for me bc i feel like my fiance doesnt believe me when itell him how rude his son is.my fiance doesnt realize that his son isnt a baby and knows what he is doing he is old enough to know whats wrong he will be 7 in a couple mo! he wont let me husband even use the restroom by himself!! he also has a daugthter who isnt his blood but raised her since shewas 1 year old! she is a total different person she could be more humble but def has more manners than her brother but she alwasy seems to be in trouble when they fight bc her brother always blames her so my fiance believes EVERYTHING his son says!! my fiance is a good man (before his kids came) he helps clean wash and cook and he helps so much w our baby but i am so tired of the way he downgrades me in front of his kids he doesnt give me any authority and lets them well his son get away with everything and his excuse is he doesnt want them to hate him becuase he hardly has them and thats why he dont want to get them in trouble that much. he has them every summer since the mom lives in california.. and i hate when people tell me its only two months well this is the first two mo that i have lived w them and it already seems like 10 years and i have to put upwith them every summer is really going to be horrible if he continues to baby them just to make up time he doesnt have them!! ineed someone one to give me advice and patience pleassee!!!!!