HELP! What else can I do to see my B.C. (biochildren)

Megan - posted on 06/21/2011 ( 15 moms have responded )

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Help me please !! BD andSM (BD is the non custodial)
what else can i do besides WAIT for August till our court date to see my B.C. (BD and I have 2 children). How will i know they are okay?

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Jane - posted on 06/22/2011

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Document everything and talk to a lawyer. Judges hate he said, she said cases. Sounds as if he is ramping up to trying to wrest custody away from you.

Tonya - posted on 06/21/2011

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OMG!!!!!! I can not stress to you to keep a journal write everything down and take a witness every time you try to get your kids. The journal should help in court as you have documentation on when and what time you went as well as someone with you to verify your accounts. Judges love when a person takes notes. If you can record the face to face conversations that will work too as phone conversations are permissible it is classified as phone tampering. Not sure of the ages on your children but you should be able to call them and talk to them even if it is for just 5 minutes. If you already have an order to see them then take a cop with you to keep peace. Hope this helps you some

Jane - posted on 06/21/2011

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How old are the kids? Old enough to tell you if something isn't right?

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Megan - posted on 06/22/2011

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*** through both sides of the attrnys! i cant imagine why BD 's attrny is telling him to do this?!?! ludacris!

Megan - posted on 06/22/2011

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police can't help unless its A COURT ORDER....all this was discussed previously arranged before summer PARENTING time started!

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No its not, but if its his parenting time all you can do is wait, you can talk to them over the phone or skype other than that you need to wait

Megan - posted on 06/21/2011

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It is not against the lawfor non custodials to visit their own children

Jane - posted on 06/21/2011

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I have the same question. If he does not have custody, why are the kids with him?

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