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Im 21 and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for nearly 4 years, he has a daughter who is 5 who i have always thought i got along with. Up until last year his daughters mum (23) would make my life hell, constantly inboxing me and threatening me, i worked at a local nightclub and she would follow me around with her family in tow to taunt me.
My boyfriend has his daughter every friday & saturday, we try to do as much as we can with her, a few weeks back she came to our house with nits and the lotion in her bag, his daughter told me she had had them a week but her mum had not bothered to get rid of them.
The following week she came and the skin on the tips of her fingers was falling off, her mum again aware of this had done nothing, we took her to the hospital and they said she had had a dermatological reaction to something and we was given creams to apply, we sent the creams home with his daughter but when she cam the following friday she said her mum had not put the creams on.
This week has tipped the iceberg when her mum packed clothes to big for her so we had to go and collect more, i waited in the car with his daughter, when i saw her mum walk past i opened to door and said hello to be civil thinking she would want to say hello to her daughter.. i was wrong and she walked straight past the car.
His daughter went home and has apparently told her mum i called her a c**t (which as much as i dislike the mum is a word i would never use and would never bad mouth her infront of her daughter) i also got threats from this also.
My boyfriend has tried to sort it out but if he sticks up for me at all he is called a crap dad and said he isnt allowed to see his daughter.
Im sick of the hassle from it & wondered if anyone else had been in a similar situation and what they did.