Lauren - posted on 11/27/2012 ( no moms have responded yet )
I have a court date coming up but I really dont want to put his dad on child support because he takes care of him and pays me every month but i had to pursue it because i was receiving public aid so basically they forced me too! here is the thing though i did it and now i regret it i went and put in writing that i no longer wanted to pursue it with the aid office so they canceled my medical but kept my son on it i dont get any food stamps or cash or medical my son only gets medical card....... we now have a court date for jan of 2013 and i really dont wanna go so im wondering what do i tell the judge when we go because we dont want to pursue it im wondering what they will say or should i just say that he isnt the dad and that i thought he was but then he has his full name hes the third???? any suggestions??