Elle - posted on 08/11/2015 ( 26 moms have responded )
Okay, so here is the deal! My husband and I are trying to get a divorce and have been trying for over 18 months. I have moved on with life and live with my fiance now who is in the military. He just received orders to move out of state. I moved in with my fiance 6 months into our relationship because he had a room for my daughter and a stable home for us all. My Fiance and I have a 6 month old together and I finally got the money to get my divorce filed. I know this sounds terrible but it is what it is. I have had my daughter since day one. And have never refused any visitation to her father. He comes and gets her MAYBE 1 weekend a month. Here she has a stable home, her own room, her toys and all her clothes. When her dad comes to get her we pack her a bag like a weekend visit. But now that I have mentioned that we are planning on moving out of state and getting the divorce done. He is saying he is going to take my daughter from me and I can only have visitation. And if its up to him I can't see her again. And that if I do move he will call the police on kidnapping charges. He has bounced around 5 different jobs in the past 2 years, got a DWI and is currently on probation with that. And he is living with friends. Do I have a legitimate case? Can he take my daughter away from all she has ever known? What do I do? I am suppose to speak with an attorney tomorrow but would like some answers before then I am so shaken up over this.