Janelle - posted on 11/27/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )
Well first of all my husband and I have been together for 9yrs. I knew him through my son's biological father who was an abuser of drugs and to me and my son with was just 3 months. When my relationship ended with him my son was 3 months after he beat me up so badly I still have the bruises on my lips and thigh. My husband already knew of my son and I never forced him to be the "dad." But they grew to bond like biological father and son. He has 3 kids from 2 relationships the oldest is 20 I have a good relationship with him no problems there since our first meeting 7 years ago. But the other 2 boy is 16 and girl is 14. These two are froma mmother who is a drug user and bad mother who's been in and oit of jail. The worst is I went to school with her and she was my bully since jr high yo high school. Well his 16 year old son doesn't like me at all, he moved in with us so fast. My husband didn't talk to me about it, I had no say at all. But he only stayed 3 months the longest 3 months. My husband tried his best on his own to get him in school and to be respectful. It never worked he threatened to burn my house down, told my son who was 4 at the time he was going to cut himself. So they court took him away. This was when he was 10. Now at 16 hes trying to come bac k. The girl doesn't like me at all she blames me for her parents not being together. How do I get the ccourage to be in their lives and tell my husband I don't want them living with us. I'm scared to go thru all that stress again. I don't want tolose my husband I prayed for him after the hell I went thru in the beginning and my son loves him sooooo much.