hes wants thee abortion but i have to much gilt from the last one

Catriona - posted on 11/05/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )

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i found out i was pregno 2 weeks ago and my bf wants me to have a abortion we already have a daughter then we both have another kid from our previous relashinships. i had a abortion about almost 9 months ago and after i had it i felt so bad it really hurt me emotional wise so i said i would never have another one i told him how i felt and hes still wanting me to go get one i feel if he reallly loved me that he would understand and support it but hes so aginst me having it it just hurtts that he rather have me committe this sin and have all this gilt and pain for the rest of my life. then to have this baby

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Kari - posted on 11/07/2013

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Don't do it! Your bf should be supporting and understand and if he don't eventually warm up to the idea of another beautiful baby in ur lives... Then let him go.. He's being selfish.. That's a life inside of you..and ur wanting to keep that baby bc he/she is inside you screaming out he/she wants to live !!!!!! keep the baby an forget the man

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[momoftwo] - posted on 11/07/2013

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Hey Cat, did you decide what you are going to do? Is he understanding that you don't want an abortion?

[momoftwo] - posted on 11/05/2013

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I wouldn't get the abortion because if you do you will have even more guilt and regret just like the last one. You clearly want this baby so do what you think is right. Men come and go but you're children are forever. I've never had an abortion before but my ex wanted me to have one with my first child (kids have different dads) and I put my foot down and told him no, it's our responsibility to take care of it because we caused it to happen, so a year after she was born he took off and I still have her (obviously lol) and I couldn't be happier.

The girls here make me sick where I live because they think they can have all the unprotected sex they want because they can always have an abortion and it's gross to think that way. If women knew what they do for abortions I bet the rates would go down because it's sad. :(

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