Hi, I am new to this and have a serious issue..... My daughter and boyfriend don't get along{I know sounds normal} . It has been this way off and on for six or so years, but lately is so bad and the thing that's sad is he is wrong, most of time. Now she is moving halfway across the country due to this mostly. He still won't say he is wrong or go out of his way, he seems kind of relieved. I am devastated and she says she will never come back while he is there. Now the hard part he is so good with my other two kids and shows he loves them, she see's this to and so do others. I love him dearly but feel like I am choosing him over her and i don't know what to do. Need some truly honest opinions please

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Jodi - posted on 10/12/2013

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What school trouble. You didn't mention any school trouble in your post.

But you did say "she is moving halfway across the country due to this mostly" and "she says she will never come back while he is there" which sounds an awful lot to me that he is a major reason she is moving. If it weren't for him she wouldn't go, so in essence, you are sending her away. Can you not see that you ARE choosing him over her if this is the decision she has made?

Tessa - posted on 10/12/2013

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She does I just keep getting told i was gonna send her anyway....so it not the same......I still feel it is cause in the end that why she left was him not the school trouble .

Jodi - posted on 10/12/2013

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You feel like you are choosing him over her because that is what you are doing. If he is the one in the wrong here, why are you allowing this to happen? Your children should come first.

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