Hi, I have been living with my fiance since February and he has a beautiful 5 year old daughter. She has just started kindergarten. I am 26 (10 years younger than my finance) and niether of us had ever been married. He has had multiple problems with the birth mother, and after a nasty custody battle (that was a result of substance abuse and domestic violence), he was awarded primary custody of his daughter. Legally, the mother is only allowed to see her daughter every other weekend at HER mother's house. Her mother also has a history of domestic and substance abuse. Anyway, when we started dating, his daughter had rough nights and would cry for her mother. When her mother began a new relationship (she immediately moved in with her 20 year old boyfriend-- the mother is 28) she was bringing her daughter around the new man. While my fiance was not happy with the situatation, I encouraged him to ease up for the sake of the child. This new man seemed to be getting along with their daughter and the mother was actively trying to spend more time with her. Needless to say, after about a year, the boyfriend had had enough and moved out. This was very hard on the child. Several months later, the mother got a new boyfriend and, to our knowledge, had him move in with her. After some simple Google searches, I found that the new boyfriend was arrested in 2008 for harrassment and failure to appear, and arrested in Feb. 2012 for assault on a female and convicted of violating an order of protection AND cyberstalking. We also googled the mother's name and found out that, this same week, she was arrested for a DWI.We immediately alerted the school that no one, other than my fiance and his mother were to pick up his child from school. The family of the mother has been very agressive about the entire situation, calling my fiance

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