Hi Moms, Single Dad for Twin Boy & Girl 3.9 yrs

Ayman - posted on 11/16/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )




Dearest Moms,
we have been married for nearly 8 years by Jan 2014, for a long 3 years of non-pregnancy although both are perfect, so we did two IVF operation and thank god we had our babies in the second one . they were porn 15 Feb 2010 .
Suddenly My Wife Passed away last Sunday, and I am all alone with under 4 years twin A boy & a Girl.
My wife was regular visitor for “circle of moms” , and maybe chatted with any of you , her Name is Nivin God bless her soul …
Now I NEED URGENT HELP , do I take the kids away for a while or no, this discoing is very crucial to know now.. as we have been staying at my sister home since then and sooner or later I will be all alone with my kids.. so I thought to satay on a nice place for some time until we are back and c what to do with our hour and my bedroom that I can’t get inside it since last week .,
I love my kids and assist my late wife so much .. but no I feel I am totally lost and disoriented. Any advice from you my dearest friends.


India - posted on 11/16/2013




Oh my...I'm so sorry for your lost...I can't come to imagine what you and your children are going thru...I'm guessing that it must be so overwhelming with just trying to get thru the day...let alone trying to plan for the next days to come...The best advice I could share is take it day by day...focus on dealing with the things that are happening in the moment...if possible try your best to dwell on the happy times your family shared as one and know that your wife would want you and the kids to to be happy even thru her absence...And most importantly seek your creator's advice and love "Jehovah "...He is a loving and caring God and hates to see us suffer...he can take care of us far better than we can:-)

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