hi my name is Pamela and i just found out from my sons girlfriend that my son, who is 27 yrs old is addicted to crack. The first thing i did was go online to find out what the drug is and its effects on the person using it. I AM STILL IN SHOCK but as i read further i should have known a long time ago. I am not talking to him anymore because i placed trust in him while we were away. Needless to say he used our van without permission and showed absolutely no regards for our home or the contents. I told him in a letter that he really disappointed us for the last time and said that i didnt want anything to do with him anymore.

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~♥Little Miss - posted on 03/20/2013

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Well, I can totally understand your frustration and disappointment. Can you talk to him about getting help instead of writing him off completely? How is his girlfriend handling this? Is she going to leave him?

Kim - posted on 03/20/2013

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You are doing well with setting limits with him. He obviously needs help and sometimes they have to spend time in jail to hit the bottom. I would also say prayers for him to hit his bottom and get help.

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Pamela - posted on 03/20/2013

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i cant talk to him because everyone else has the problem and not him. thank you for your prayers

Pamela - posted on 03/20/2013

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i think she does it too. they cannot be trusted and i am sick and tired of all his lies. i need peace in my life and i wont be able to get that peace if i still talk to him

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